Finding Family in Service

Leah Stiles’ story began long before she ever put on a uniform. She grew up in foster care through the Albany County children’s system in Upstate New York, carrying an enduring search for stability, family, and belonging. When a Navy recruiter described the military as “like a family”, the words resonated in a way few others had. She enlisted not only in pursuit of opportunity, but in search of purpose, hoping to give back and build a life grounded in intention. 

Over two decades of service, Stiles rose to the rank of Senior Chief Petty Officer (E-8), building the kind of leadership perspective that can only come from years of responsibility, discipline, and watching the people around you closely. During that time, she also witnessed something that few were willing to name: the quiet, devastating toll that body-image pressures, military culture, and mental health stigma could take on service members. She saw disordered eating go unaddressed. She saw people suffer in silence. And she carried her own lived experience alongside those observations, storing it all until the moment she knew what to do with it.

Leah Stiles in her military dress uniform posing for her headshot with two flags in the background.

Finding Purpose After Retirement

After retiring from the Navy, Stiles channeled that experience into action. She founded SEA WAVES, Support, Education, and Awareness for Wellness, Advocacy, Validation, Eating Disorders, and Suicide Prevention, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit established in 2023 to address a critical and largely invisible gap in care: eating disorders and mental health within the military community. Through SEA WAVES, she set out to ensure that no service member, veteran, or military family member would have to face these challenges alone.

IVMF Programs Making a Difference

It was during SEA WAVES’ early growth that Stiles engaged with Syracuse University’s D’Aniello Institute for Veterans and Military Families (IVMF). Starting in 2021, Leah began a journey with IVMF that would take her through several of our programs and events, including Entrepreneurship Bootcamp for Veterans (EBV), V-WISE, Military Founders Lab, Military Entrepreneurship Forum, and even now she serves as an IVMF Ambassador for Orlando, Florida, helping other military-connected individuals in her local community navigate IVMF programs and resources. 

Like many founder-operators, Leah had been building while moving, what she described as “driving the ship as we were building it.” IVMF programming, and in particular, programs benefitting from the capacity-building and financial education provided through the V-CAP Readiness Initiative, gave her language and structure for what sustainable growth actually required. The Business Model Canvas, in particular, became a tool she returned to again and again, not as a one-time exercise but as a living framework for understanding her organization’s direction, communicating its value to funders, and making sure the foundation could hold the weight of the mission she was building.

Leah Stiles sits at her Sea Waves booth displaying jewelry, brochures and “Battle Scars & Body Wars” books in an indoor market.

Helping Struggling Servicemembers

The results of that foundational work have been significant. SEA WAVES has grown rapidly, care navigation, educational initiatives, and healing-centered events for the military community. The organization has been included in military-connected resource networks through the Department of Veterans Affairs, a testament to both the urgency of its mission and Stiles’s ability to build credibility around a topic that has long been overlooked. She also authored Battle Scars & Body Wars: A Personal and Professional Journey Shining a Light on Eating Disorders in the Military, a #1 Amazon Best Seller book that extends her advocacy beyond the organization and onto a national stage.

For Stiles, success is not just about what SEA WAVES has built, it is about how the field moves together. She is a vocal advocate for collaboration over competition in the veteran and military-connected ecosystem, arguing that fragmented efforts and duplicated programs make it harder for the people who need support most to find it. When asked what she would tell other veterans and military-connected entrepreneurs considering IVMF programs, her answer was immediate: “Connect, connect, connect.” She encourages every participant to leave every event with at least three intentional new relationships, and to show up as a mentor as much as they seek one.

A Bright Future for Servicemembers and SEA WAVES

Stiles also knows her strengths and leans into them honestly. With a background in mass communications, marketing, and messaging, she is well-equipped for the storytelling and outreach her mission demands. What she has learned to build around that core is an equally strong circle of advisors, board members, and mentors who fill the gaps, because the mission is too important to let any gap go unaddressed.

Since founding SEA WAVES, Stiles’ dedication and vision have earned growing recognition across the military and nonprofit communities. Her achievements include:

  • Founder and Executive Director, SEA WAVES, the first nonprofit dedicated to eating disorder awareness, education, and support for the military community
  • Author, Battle Scars & Body Wars, a #1 Amazon Best Seller
  • Received the Melissa Washington Small Business Award through Women Veterans Giving
  • Selected for the IVMF Shemin Grant
  • Selected for the Captain Melvin T. Stith Pioneer Award at the IVMF’s Entrepreneurship Bootcamp for Veterans (EBV)
  • Keynote speaker on eating disorders, military mental health, and suicide prevention
  • U.S. Navy Senior Chief Petty Officer (Retired)

Each of these milestones reflects a single, unwavering commitment: to shine a light on what has been hidden for too long. From a childhood defined by the search for family, to a naval career built on service and resilience, to a nonprofit that is rewriting the conversation around eating disorders in the military, Leah Stiles has never stopped turning her experiences into something that could help someone else find their way through.